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Clarify Sex Ed: The Curriculum You Wish You Had — Now Free on YouTube with Parent Guidebooks

Clarify is a modern, inclusive sex education curriculum created by a youth educator and mom of two. It’s everything you wish you’d learned about sex, puberty, relationships, and safety—designed for families to use at home, at your pace, and aligned with your values.

Start today—empower your family with trusted, foundational sex education.

Free on YouTube with Parent Guides

Clarify Sex Education

Turn the Most Awkward Part of Adolescence into the Most Meaningful Connection of Your Child's Life.

 

This Isn’t Just Sex Ed. This Is A Life-Changing Opportunity to Connect.

Clarify is a platform designed to help parents build deep, lasting relationships with their children—right when they need it the most.

Adolescence is more overwhelming than ever. Kids are flooded with information, most of it unfiltered and often misleading. In all the noise, they need guidance—but they’re asking for it less than ever before.

And in the chaos of our busy lives, many parents are missing it.

Age-appropriate sex education curriculum for parents and caregivers

Your Time Is the Greatest Expression of Love

And your time is also your most powerful influence.

You only get so much time on this earth—and what you choose to do with it speaks volumes. Spending intentional, focused time with your child tells them you love them. It builds connection. And connection is what gives you the ability to shape their values, their self-image, and the choices they make.

Age-appropriate sex education curriculum for parents and caregivers

Clarify Was Created to Help You Strengthen That Influence

Sex education isn’t just necessary—it’s transformative.

Like learning to eat, read, or go to the bathroom, sex education is a fundamental part of growing up. Clarify empowers both children and parents with:

  • Essential facts and science

  • Age-appropriate, values-based guidance

  • Tools to create confident, compassionate conversations

  • A structure that supports connection at every age 

Age-appropriate sex education curriculum for parents and caregivers

But More Than That—Clarify Empowers You

You are your child’s greatest guide. No one is better equipped to support their emotional world than you.

Clarify gives you the tools to:

  • Talk openly and consistently about sex, identity, and relationships

  • Pass on your values, hopes, and beliefs

  • Create daily opportunities for love and connection

  • Deepen your influence during the most pivotal years of growth

Age-appropriate sex education curriculum for parents and caregivers

Prepare Them for What’s Coming—Mentally, Emotionally, and Physically

When kids understand their bodies and emotions, they develop confidence, empathy, and self-respect. Clarify helps your child:

  • Face puberty with less fear and more knowledge

  • Build respectful relationships

  • Understand consent, boundaries, and communication

  • Foster a healthy and positive view of themselves and others 

This Isn’t About Perfection. It’s About Presence.

Clarify is not the easy path. But it’s the most meaningful one.

You don’t need to have all the answers. You don’t need to be perfect. What matters most is being present, engaged, and open.

Clarify helps you show up with love, honesty, and clarity—day after day.

Be Their First Source of Truth

Be the one they come to. Be the one they trust.

Your child doesn’t need more influencers or strangers telling them who they are.
They need you.
Your love.
Your voice.
Your truth.

 

Start With Strong Communication. Build a Lifelong Connection.

Before you even begin “the talk” about sex, puberty, or relationships, the most important foundation is already being built: communication.

Clear, open communication is the heart of a connected relationship.
It begins with truly listening, expressing yourself in a way your child understands, and showing—through your tone and body language—that they are safe, seen, and loved.

The Clarify Masterclass Is Your First Step- and it's Free!

My free Masterclass will give you practical, powerful tools to:

  • Communicate clearly and calmly about sensitive topics

  • Build trust through your words and your presence

  • Start sex education conversations with confidence and ease

  • Lay the groundwork for healthy, honest, lifelong dialogue

Whether you’re homeschooling, supplementing school curriculum, or just want to raise a kind, confident, well-informed child—this Masterclass is for you.

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"I absolutely loved having this class for me and my children. It definitely helped all of us open the doors on conversations that can be uncomfortable. My son isn’t embarrassed to bring up questions about sexuality or to talk about intimate topics. "

 Laurie Spepulveda

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Trusted Expertise, Free Tools, and Heart-Led Support to Empower Your Parenting Journey

Explore featured articles, expert interviews, and powerful free resources—all designed to help you stay connected to your child, lead with love, and navigate sex education with clarity, confidence, and care.

Watch Sean Donohue Show

Real, uncensored conversation with Family Coach Sean Donohue & Co-host TV's Jordan Steele

Getting to speak freely with other experts is such a rare and amazing opportunity, but getting to speak openly with other parents? That’s my passion. I had the chance to do both on the Sean Donohue Show, and it was such a powerful conversation. We dive into the tough topics—why it's so hard to find quality sex education, how to talk to kids about sex in a fast-paced world where parents still have the most influence on their kids' beliefs about body image and relationships, navigating conversations around masturbation and porn, and why it’s all worth it in the end. If you're a parent, or just someone interested in these critical discussions, I’d love for you to tune in!

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Clarify Sex Education Recommended by Tasha Fishman

The powerhouse voice in the unschooling and homeschooling world, Tasha Fishman, heard on parenting and education podcasts all over North America, personally uses and recommends the Clarify Lesson Series as her go-to for sex education for her children and recommends it to her community.

"If you are looking for an awesome curriculum for sex education, this is the one I am doing with my youngest son (12 years old). The videos are easy and short, just enough to spark some good questions and belly laughs. B and I almost fell off our chairs laughing at the look on his face when he realized the details of puberty. I know kids in school are being exposed inappropriately and far too young through libraries and propaganda, but for us unschoolers and homeschoolers, we get to take our time and introduce this material at a pace that is comfortable for the child. This is a great tool to have a wonderful, trust-building experience with your kiddos."

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Clarify Sex Education Listed Among Best Homeschool Sex Education Resources

Clarify Sex Education's Clarify Lesson Series has been recognized among the best homeschool sex education options, offering kid-friendly, in-depth support to guide both parents and children through vital topics. The series provides age-appropriate, science-based information in a way that's tailored to your family’s values, making it easy for parents to have meaningful, confident conversations with their kids about puberty, sex, and growing up.

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Clarify Sex Education Recommended as her go-to Homeschool Sex Education Resources

Among her list of best practices and Texas homeschooling regulations, Stacey Garska Rodriguez shares her favorite curriculum and resources for teaching her own children. She uses, loves, and highly recommends the Clarify Lesson Series as the best option for sex education.

"I am so grateful to have found Claire because her videos make teaching my kids about this important topic so much easier!"

- Stacey Garska Rodriguez

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Why Parents Love the Clarify Sex Education Series

It brings parents and kids closer—right when it matters most.

Clarify takes the fear and awkwardness out of life’s most important conversations. It turns overwhelm into clarity, discomfort into confidence, and “the talk” into an open, ongoing dialogue rooted in trust and love.

With Clarify, you’re not just sharing facts—you’re building lasting connection.

You’re creating a safe space where your child feels seen, heard, and supported as they grow into who they’re meant to be.

Clarify is for parents who don’t just want to get through puberty, but want to use it as a powerful opportunity—to shape their child’s future with love, purpose, and lasting influence.

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"I am really grateful to have some more tools, from someone I trust, that I can continue to go back to again and again."

Jacki Harp 

Ready to Turn Sex Education Into a Real Connection?

The whole Clarify Sex Ed Series is now on YouTube—free and easy to watch anytime!

These videos teach kids about sex, puberty, and relationships in a clear, kind, and honest way. Plus, you get simple parent guidebooks to help you talk with your child at home.

Clarify is perfect for families, homeschoolers, and parents who want to teach with love and truth. Watch on any device, whenever it works for you.

Start today—build trust and help your child learn what really matters.

BITE-SIZED VIDEO EPISODES

Want an Easy Way to Teach Your Child About Sex?

Done! The whole Clarify Sex Education 8-Part Video Series is now on YouTube—watch anytime on any device.

These friendly, no-judgment videos make learning about growing up feel like talking to a good friend. From puberty and sex to pregnancy and staying safe, each lesson is quick—about 10 minutes or less.

You and your child can watch together or your child can watch alone. Either way, these videos help start important talks and give your family a trusted, solid sex education.

ON-THE-GO PARENT GUIDES

Whether you’re waiting in the pick-up line or sitting at your computer, you can grab my free parent guidebooks anytime. They help you have important talks with your kid about sex and puberty—without the stress or awkwardness.

These guides are full of tips, fun activities, and easy exercises to go with all 8 videos in the Clarify Series. Think of them as your roadmap to handle tricky talks in a way that fits your family’s values.

You’ll feel more confident and find your own voice. When your child is ready, you’ll be ready too. Let’s make these talks easier and more meaningful!

Find the free guidebooks linked right in the YouTube video descriptions.

 

CLARIFY COMMUNITY MEMBERSHIP

For just $5 a month, join the Clarify Community!

Get live Q&A sessions with me, Claire Tomkinson, every two weeks, plus 24/7 access to a parent forum full of helpful tips and advice from other parents.

You also get access to me anytime through the on-demand portal, so you can ask questions and get support whenever you need it.

Ask about your child and family, and get help made just for you.

The Clarify Community will boost your confidence and make talking about sex and puberty easier.

Step into the Clarify Community and grow with us every step of the way!

CLARIFY KIDS WORKSHOPS & PARENT COACHING

I offer one-on-one parent coaching to answer your questions live and help you feel confident having real talks about sex and puberty with your child.

I also lead live kids’ workshops where I teach the full Clarify series in real time. Your child can ask their own questions, and I tailor the talk to fit your family’s needs.

Choose from 1-on-1 sessions, small groups, or large family groups—perfect for scout troops, small groups, families, and communities who want kids to get honest answers in person.

My goal is to help parents be ready to keep the conversation going and share their own values with their kids.

"I certainly feel prepared and empowered to have these coming-of-age talks with my kids. The stress of coming up with and delivering appropriate content is gone. I appreciate that the topics are split up into smaller units so we can address a little or a lot of it at one time based on each child and the things they need or want to know. The videos are also so helpful as they really set the tone for a casual conversation and not so much a lesson. THANK YOU!"

Mandie Jester

Clarify Live Workshops & Coaching

Who’s Going to Talk to Your Child About Sex and Puberty?

Someone will. Let’s make sure it’s you—with love, truth, and confidence.

In a world full of noise, confusion, and unfiltered information, your child needs a steady, trusted voice—yours. And with the right support, you can be the one they turn to first.

If you're looking for real-time, expert-led support, my Clarify Kids Workshops offer a safe, grounded, and age-appropriate space to start these essential conversations.

Your child will receive factual, foundational sex education, while you gain tools to continue open, values-based dialogue at home—so they grow up informed, confident, and connected to the person who loves them most.

Because the most powerful influence in your child’s life… is you.

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A Full-Circle Clarify Story
 

One of my favorite stories comes from a former Clarify student who attended my live workshop back in 8th grade. Years later, I had the joy of walking alongside her again—this time as her premarital counselor and even the one who officiated her wedding!

We still talk openly about sex, relationships, and communication today. It’s a powerful reminder that when we start these conversations early—with honesty, care, and respect—they can grow into lifelong trust and connection.