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Clarify Sex Education is the The Sex Education Curriculum You Wish You Had

Created by a youth & adult educator and mom of two, Clarify is a complete, foundational resource for teaching kids about sex, puberty, relationships, and safety—at home, at your pace, with your values.

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Clarify Sex Education

Turn the Most Awkward Part of Adolescence into the Most Meaningful Connection of Your Child's Life.

 

This Isn’t Just Sex Ed. This Is Your Greatest Opportunity to Connect.

Clarify is a platform designed to help parents build deep, lasting relationships with their children—right when they need it the most.

Adolescence is more overwhelming than ever. Kids are flooded with information, most of it unfiltered and often misleading. In all the noise, they need guidance—but they’re asking for it less than ever before.

And in the chaos of our busy lives, many parents are missing it.

Age-appropriate sex education curriculum for parents and caregivers

Your Time Is the Greatest Expression of Love

And your time is also your most powerful influence.

You only get so much time on this earth—and what you choose to do with it speaks volumes. Spending intentional, focused time with your child tells them you love them. It builds connection. And connection is what gives you the ability to shape their values, their self-image, and the choices they make.

Age-appropriate sex education curriculum for parents and caregivers

Clarify Was Created to Help You Strengthen That Influence

Sex education isn’t just necessary—it’s transformative.

Like learning to eat, read, or go to the bathroom, sex education is a fundamental part of growing up. Clarify empowers both children and parents with:

  • Essential facts and science

  • Age-appropriate, values-based guidance

  • Tools to create confident, compassionate conversations

  • A structure that supports connection at every age 

Age-appropriate sex education curriculum for parents and caregivers

But More Than That—Clarify Empowers You

You are your child’s greatest guide. No one is better equipped to support their emotional world than you.

Clarify gives you the tools to:

  • Talk openly and consistently about sex, identity, and relationships

  • Pass on your values, hopes, and beliefs

  • Create daily opportunities for love and connection

  • Deepen your influence during the most pivotal years of growth

Age-appropriate sex education curriculum for parents and caregivers

Prepare Them for What’s Coming—Mentally, Emotionally, and Physically

When kids understand their bodies and emotions, they develop confidence, empathy, and self-respect. Clarify helps your child:

  • Face puberty with less fear and more knowledge

  • Build respectful relationships

  • Understand consent, boundaries, and communication

  • Foster a healthy and positive view of themselves and others 

This Isn’t About Perfection. It’s About Presence.

Clarify is not the easy path. But it’s the most meaningful one.

You don’t need to have all the answers. You don’t need to be perfect. What matters most is being present, engaged, and open.

Clarify helps you show up with love, honesty, and clarity—day after day.

Be Their First Source of Truth

Be the one they come to. Be the one they trust.

Your child doesn’t need more influencers or strangers telling them who they are.
They need you.
Your love.
Your voice.
Your truth.

Age-appropriate sex education curriculum for parents and caregivers

Start With Strong Communication. Build a Lifelong Connection.

Before you even begin “the talk” about sex, puberty, or relationships, the most important foundation is already being built: communication.

Clear, open communication is the heart of a connected relationship.
It begins with truly listening, expressing yourself in a way your child understands, and showing—through your tone and body language—that they are safe, seen, and loved.

The Clarify Starter Bundle Is Your First Step- and it's Free!

My free Starter Video and Parent’s Guide will give you practical, powerful tools to:

  • Communicate clearly and calmly about sensitive topics

  • Build trust through your words and your presence

  • Start sex education conversations with confidence and ease

  • Lay the groundwork for healthy, honest, lifelong dialogue

Whether you’re homeschooling, supplementing school curriculum, or just want to raise a kind, confident, well-informed child—this bundle is for you.

Start Building A Connection

"I absolutely loved having this class for me and my children. It definitely helped all of us open the doors on conversations that can be uncomfortable. My son isn’t embarrassed to bring up questions about sexuality or to talk about intimate topics. "

 Laurie Spepulveda

Clarify in the Media

Trusted Expertise, Free Tools, and Heart-Led Support to Empower Your Parenting Journey

Explore featured articles, expert interviews, and powerful free resources—all designed to help you stay connected to your child, lead with love, and navigate sex education with clarity, confidence, and care.

Watch Sean Donohue Show

Real, uncensored conversation with Family Coach Sean Donohue & Co-host TV's Jordan Steele

Getting to speak freely with other experts is such a rare and amazing opportunity, but getting to speak openly with other parents? That’s my passion. I had the chance to do both on the Sean Donohue Show, and it was such a powerful conversation. We dive into the tough topics—why it's so hard to find quality sex education, how to talk to kids about sex in a fast-paced world where parents still have the most influence on their kids' beliefs about body image and relationships, navigating conversations around masturbation and porn, and why it’s all worth it in the end. If you're a parent, or just someone interested in these critical discussions, I’d love for you to tune in!

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Unschooling the Mind Community

Clarify Sex Education Recommended by Tasha Fishman

The powerhouse voice in the unschooling and homeschooling world, Tasha Fishman, heard on parenting and education podcasts all over North America, personally uses and recommends the Clarify Lesson Series as her go-to for sex education for her children and recommends it to her community.

"If you are looking for an awesome curriculum for sex education, this is the one I am doing with my youngest son (12 years old). The videos are easy and short, just enough to spark some good questions and belly laughs. B and I almost fell off our chairs laughing at the look on his face when he realized the details of puberty. I know kids in school are being exposed inappropriately and far too young through libraries and propaganda, but for us unschoolers and homeschoolers, we get to take our time and introduce this material at a pace that is comfortable for the child. This is a great tool to have a wonderful, trust-building experience with your kiddos."

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Clarify Sex Education Listed Among Best Homeschool Sex Education Resources

Clarify Sex Education's Clarify Lesson Series has been recognized among the best homeschool sex education options, offering kid-friendly, in-depth support to guide both parents and children through vital topics. The series provides age-appropriate, science-based information in a way that's tailored to your family’s values, making it easy for parents to have meaningful, confident conversations with their kids about puberty, sex, and growing up.

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Clarify Sex Education Recommended as her go-to Homeschool Sex Education Resources

Among her list of best practices and Texas homeschooling regulations, Stacey Garska Rodriguez shares her favorite curriculum and resources for teaching her own children. She uses, loves, and highly recommends the Clarify Lesson Series as the best option for sex education.

"I am so grateful to have found Claire because her videos make teaching my kids about this important topic so much easier!"

- Stacey Garska Rodriguez

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Cringy Convos Blog

Parenting Blog for Talking to Your Kids About Sex, Puberty, and Relationships

Join me as I share expert advice and real-life tips on navigating those "cringey" sex education conversations with your kids. In this post, you’ll find practical strategies for talking about sensitive topics like puberty, sex, and relationships in a way that’s both natural and comfortable. The goal? To build trust, keep the lines of communication open, and make sure your child feels informed and at ease—without the awkwardness!

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Clarify Kids Podcast

Real Conversations About Puberty, Sex, and Relationships with My Daughters

In the Clarify Kids Podcast, I practice what I preach! Join me and my daughters as they ask me unrehearsed, real-life questions about puberty, sex, and relationships. Listen in as we keep the conversation light, natural, and open, so my girls always feel comfortable coming to me for more. Laugh, learn, and grow with us as we tackle these important topics together.

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Why Parents Love the Clarify Lesson Series

It brings parents and kids closer—right when it matters most.

Clarify takes the fear and awkwardness out of life’s most important conversations. It turns overwhelm into clarity, discomfort into confidence, and “the talk” into an open, ongoing dialogue rooted in trust and love.

With Clarify, you’re not just sharing facts—you’re building lasting connection.

You’re creating a safe space where your child feels seen, heard, and supported as they grow into who they’re meant to be.

Clarify is for parents who don’t just want to get through puberty, but want to use it as a powerful opportunity—to shape their child’s future with love, purpose, and lasting influence.

Empower Your Child Today
 

"I am really grateful to have some more tools, from someone I trust, that I can continue to go back to again and again."

Jacki Harp 

Ready to Turn Sex Education Into Meaningful Connection?

Explore the Clarify Lesson Series—Factual, Foundational, and Rooted in Love

The Clarify Lesson Series gives you everything you need to teach your child about sex, puberty, and relationships—clearly, confidently, and with compassion.

These foundational, science-backed videos and guides are designed for parent-led learning at home, making it easy to start factual, values-driven conversations that bring you and your child closer—right when they need you most.

  • Accessible on any device.
  • Perfect for homeschoolers, school supplementers, and every intentional parent.
  • Rooted in truth. Delivered with love.
BITE-SIZED VIDEO EPISODES

Do you wish you could just show your child a video that tells them everything? Done! Check out Clarify Sex Education’s 8-part video series!

These comfortable, judgment-free episodes make learning about human growth and development feel as natural as talking to a good friend. From puberty and sexual activities to pregnancy and risky behaviors, each video packs essential info into quick 10-minute (or less) lessons.

These bite-sized episodes make it easy for you and your kid to have these important conversations together. Whether your child watches them on their own or you use them for a little inspiration, you can feel really good knowing they’re getting a solid sex education that you can trust

ON-THE-GO PARENT GUIDES

Whether you’re scrolling in the pick-up line or chilling at your computer, you can access my handy parent guidebooks anytime you need them. They’re here to help you level up important conversations with your kid about sex and puberty without the dreaded stress or weirdness.

These guidebooks are loaded with tips, fun activities, and thoughtful exercises to guide you through all 8 videos in the Clarify Lesson Series. Think of them as your personal roadmap for tackling those tricky chats in a way that fits your family’s needs and values.

With these guides, you’ll boost your confidence and find your authentic voice. So when your child is ready to talk, you’ll be right there with the perfect message. Let’s make those conversations not just easier, but truly meaningful!

CLARIFY COMMUNITY MEMBERSHIP

When you get my Clarify Lesson Series, you’re not just getting access to my informative videos and awesome parent guides—you can also opt in to the Clarify Community, where we learn and grow right alongside our kids!

As a member, you’ll join me, Claire Tomkinson, live Q&A sessions, tailored support, and 24-7 forum access, boosting your confidence for those important convos with your child. Our community forum is full of great advice, actionable tips, and best practices from fellow parents just like you!

Step into the Clarify Community, where we support and grow together every step of the way!

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"I certainly feel prepared and empowered to have these coming-of-age talks with my kids. The stress of coming up with and delivering appropriate content is gone. I appreciate that the topics are split up into smaller units so we can address a little or a lot of it at one time based on each child and the things they need or want to know. The videos are also so helpful as they really set the tone for a casual conversation and not so much a lesson. THANK YOU!"

Mandie Jester

Who’s Going to Talk to Your Child About Sex and Puberty?

Someone will. Let’s make sure it’s you—with love, truth, and confidence.

In a world full of noise, confusion, and unfiltered information, your child needs a steady, trusted voice—yours. And with the right support, you can be the one they turn to first.

If you're looking for real-time, expert-led support, my Clarify Kids Workshops offer a safe, grounded, and age-appropriate space to start these essential conversations.

Your child will receive factual, foundational sex education, while you gain tools to continue open, values-based dialogue at home—so they grow up informed, confident, and connected to the person who loves them most.

Because the most powerful influence in your child’s life… is you.

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