
The Clarify Lesson Series Isnt Just Sex Ed—It’s Your Greatest Opportunity to Connect With Your Child
A parent-led, heart-centered sex education platform that turns awkward conversations into lifelong connection.
Your child is going to learn about sex, bodies, and relationships.
Make sure they hear it from the one who loves them most—you.
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This Isn’t Just Sex Ed—It’s Your Greatest Opportunity to Connect
Because they’re going to learn it somewhere.
Make sure it comes from you—truthful, loving, and grounded in what matters most.
You Only Get One Shot at These Years
Adolescence is loud. Confusing. Constantly changing.
And your child needs you more than ever—
even if they’re not saying it.
Every day, they’re flooded with messages about sex, bodies, identity, and relationships.
From TikTok. From school. From YouTube. From their friends.
Even from places they shouldn’t be seeing—like porn.

Here’s the Problem No One Talks About
Most of what they’re hearing is unfiltered, inaccurate, and completely disconnected from your values.
And in the chaos of it all, there’s one voice they’re missing:
Yours.
Not because they don’t want to hear from you.
Not because they don’t need you.
But because they don’t know how to ask.
This is your chance to change that.

Clarify Helps You Step In Before the World Does
This is more than a course.
It’s a conversation framework that helps you become your child’s safest place, most trusted guide, and most powerful teacher.

What The Clarify Lesson Series Gives You
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A shame-free, science-based sex education curriculum
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Self-paced, fact-filled, and beautifully designed
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Parent-centered tools to guide value-driven conversations
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A simple way to turn “the talk” into lifelong connection
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Direct support through Q&As, coaching, and workshops
You don’t need to be perfect.
You just need to be present.
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What’s included in the Clarify Lesson Series

Bite-Sized Videos. Big-Time Impact.
Finally—Videos That Say What You Want to Say (Without the Awkward)
Wish you could just hit play and have someone explain it all clearly and comfortably?
Done.
Clarify’s 8-part video series covers everything from puberty and sexual activity to consent, pregnancy, and risky behaviors—in short, judgment-free lessons that feel like a chat with a trusted friend.
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Each video is under 10 minutes
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Clear, factual, and values-neutral
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Designed for kids to watch solo or with you
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Perfect for sparking meaningful, low-pressure conversations
Whether your child watches them independently or you use them to start the dialogue, you’ll both walk away feeling more confident, connected, and informed.

Your Roadmap for Connection
One Bite-Sized Video at a Time
Clarify’s parent guidebooks are designed to turn short lessons into lasting impact. Whether you're catching a quiet moment in the pick-up line or diving in at home, these guides are always ready when you are.
Each one pairs with a video in the Clarify Lesson Series—giving you:
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Simple conversation starters
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Confidence-boosting tips
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Fun, meaningful activities
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Tools to align every convo with your values
No awkward scripts. No stress. Just support.
So when your child is ready to talk, you’ll already be there—with clarity, confidence, and love.
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Real Time Guidance and Connection—
Because You Don’t Have to Do This Alone
When you invest in the Clarify Lesson Series, you’re not just getting videos and guides—
you have the option to join a growing community of intentional, like-hearted parents.
As a member, you’ll get:
- Bi-weekly live Q&As with me, Claire Tomkinson
Ask anything, get real answers, and build confidence to tackle tough conversations with love. - Access to our private parent forum-Â Share stories, swap strategies, and connect with others walking through the same season.
- Ongoing support, encouragement, and expert guidance- So you’re never stuck, never second-guessing, and never doing this alone.
The Clarify Community is here to walk with you—every step of the way.
Join us and feel confident, connected, and supported.Â
Adolescence is the time when your child reaches for you the least, and needs you the most.
Clarify isn’t here to replace you—it’s here to help you show up, fully present, in the moments that matter most.
Empower Your Child TodayThis changed everything for our family.
What parents and experts are saying about Clarify
Casey McMullen is a teacher, educator, and mom of two. She understands the crucial role of parent involvement both inside and outside the classroom. When parents take an active role in sex education at home, it not only boosts their child’s confidence, safety, and education—it also supports teachers in the classroom.
Casey McMullen
As an outpatient therapist specializing in working with teens and their parents, Mckay understands the challenging conversations that parents often avoid. He recognizes the positive impact that open communication can have on children. Being a parent and a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and Therapist, he highly recommends the Clarify Lesson Series as an excellent resource for initiating these essential discussions.
McKay Glasgow
"Having an open and supportive relationship with my children is one of my top priorities as a mom and that doesn't stop at puberty. Claire's sex education lessons are beautifully made, easy to understand, and, most importantly, help foster important conversations. She goes through every topic with care and allows families to have natural conversations about anatomy, puberty, relationships, expectations, and more. Sex education is such an important part of helping kids understand themselves and plays an important role in keeping them safe and healthy. I am thankful that Claire's course will provide many families with this much needed information."Â
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Real Parents. Real Connection. Real Peace of Mind.
"I certainly feel prepared and empowered to have these coming-of-age talks with my kids. The stress of coming up with and delivering appropriate content is gone. I appreciate that the topics are split up into smaller units so we can address a little or a lot of it at one time based on each child and the things they need or want to know. The videos are also so helpful as they really set the tone for a casual conversation and not so much a lesson. THANK YOU!"
 Amanda Jester
"I absolutely loved having this class for me and my children. It definitely helped all of us open the doors on conversations that can be uncomfortable. My son isn’t embarrassed to bring up questions about sexuality or to talk about intimate topics. I believe taking the class made him regard his sexuality as a factual part of himself and he has none of the shame or hesitancy around these topics that I grew up with."
 Laurie Spepulveda
"Hi, Claire! Let me just say, congratulations on your new venture, but not so new venture. I have gone through the whole series of the clarify sex education course and it is great. One of the best I have seen so far, especially with my little stints being a school nurse, this is the best delivery I have seen, well thought out and very well segregated into sub topics that links into each other nicely. and the tips for parents having the talk was brilliant to incorporate. Really well done. "
 Lydie Harwood
"I'm so glad you made the Clarify program! We're pretty open about anatomy and stuff, but I wasn't sure what we missed. Having the lessons to guide us was awesome!"
Krista Frahm
Clarify in the Media
Trusted by parents, educators, and communities across the country
Featured in parenting blogs, The Family Coach podcast, and listed among best curriculum and resources for homeschool and unschool families.

Sean Donohue Show
I recently had the honor of guest speaking on The Family Coach, Sean Donohue's Podcast with co-host TV’s weatherman, Jordan Steele. We uncensored important parent-child conversations, discussing the vital need for open, honest dialogue around puberty and sex education.Â

Table Life Blog
Clarify Sex Education's Clarify Lesson Series has been recognized among the best homeschool sex education options, offering kid-friendly, in-depth support to guide both parents and children through vital topics.Â

The Soccer Mom Blog
"I am so grateful to have found Claire because her videos make teaching my kids about this important topic so much easier!"
Stacey Garska Rodriguez praises Clarify as her go-to resource for teaching sex education to her own children and highly recommends it to her readers.

Unschooling The Mind
The Clarify Lesson Series is being used by thought leader and unschooling/homeschooling powerhouse, Tasha Fishman, who highly recommends it to her incredible following and community. She has access to the best curricula available, so it’s truly an honor to be listed as her top choice.
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"By going through the guided steps provided by the Clarify Sex Education Series, we were able to open the conversation with our daughter sooner than we realized was ever possible!"
Alisa & Rex Noble
Start The Conversation TodayINSIDEÂ THE VIDEOS
Bite-Sized Episodes
My video series covers essential topics, including:
- Puberty
- Male Puberty
- Female Puberty
- Menstruation
- Sexual Activities
- Sexual Intercourse
- Pregnancy
- Sexual Risks
Each episode is under 10 minutes, delivering essential info on puberty in a quick, easy format. Go at your child’s pace—watch full episodes or just parts that fit their needs. Presented in a relaxed, judgment-free style, the videos feel like a casual chat, making tough topics more approachable for both you and your child.
Plus, each video comes with a parent guidebook full of expert tips to help you confidently lead the conversation, share your values, and tailor the material to your family’s needs. No need to memorize all the details—I've got that covered!
The video sample is featuring clips from the Clarify Video Series.Â
INSIDE THE PARENT GUIDEBOOKS
Mobile Friendly, On-the-Go GuidesÂ
Ready to Transform the Most Awkward Part of Adolescence
Into the Most Meaningful Connection of Your Child's Life?
This is your moment.
To connect.
To teach.
To shape their future.
To love—on purpose.
Let’s turn “the talk” into a lifetime of trust.
CLARIFY LESSON SERIES
$69.99
 ✨Bonus Clarify Starter Bundle✨
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8 Educational Videos
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 8 Digital Parent Guidebooks
CLARIFY LESSON SERIES + 3 MO. COMMUNITY
$89.99
 ✨Bonus Clarify Starter Bundle✨
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8 Educational Videos
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8 Digital Parent Guidebooks
- 3 Months Clarify Community Membership
CLARIFY LESSON SERIES + 6 MO. COMMUNITY
$99.99
 ✨Bonus Clarify Starter Bundle✨
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8 Educational Videos
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8 Digital Parent Guidebooks
- 6 Months Clarify Community Membership
7-DAY MONEY-BACK GUARANTEE
If you decide the Clarify Lesson Series is not a good fit for your family, let us know within the first 7-days for a full refund. No questions asked.
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Get Exactly What You Need
I built Clarify to empower you—with the tools, language, and confidence to shape these important conversations around your unique child and family values.
Choose the lesson that fits your needs.
Click. Customize. Connect.
Then head straight to checkout and start today.
You’ve Got Questions—I’ve Got You
You’re not alone in this.
Join live Q&As, parent/child workshops, and private coaching sessions where you can ask anything and get real, compassionate answers from me—and from other like-hearted parents walking this road too.
We’re in this together.
I’ve answered some of the most commonly asked questions below:
How do I use the Clarify Lesson Series?
Are my results guaranteed?
Why should I talk to my child about Sex if they will learn about it in school?
Does the Clarify Lesson Series align with my Beliefs?
How do you become a Member of the Clarify Community?
How old should my child be to best engage with the Clarify Lesson Series?
Does the Clarify Lesson Series encourage Abstinence?
Does the Clarify Lesson Series address Pornography?
Does the Clarify Lesson Series talk about LGBTQIA+?
Does talking to children about sex at an early age promote early sexual exploration?
Is the Clarify Lesson Series explicit or overly graphic?
Does the Clarify Lesson Series promote contraception?
Does the Clarify Lesson Series encourage saving sex for marriage?
Does the Clarify Lesson Series talk about Sexting and the role of Social Media?
What do I do if the Clarify Lesson Videos doesn't discuss a topic I want my child to know about?
What if I just feel too nervous to talk to my kids about sex?
Clarify Sex Education Disclaimer




Life After Clarify
What former Clarify Kids say about Clarify now that they are Adults
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"As a teenager, almost all of the societal messages I was exposed to about puberty and sexual development were associated with taboo, shame, and self-consciousness. This workshop was one of the only counter messages - helping me to craft a positive, empowering narrative about sexual development. The sexuality workshop created a mutual language that my parents and I could both access to talk about puberty and sex. Afterwards, I was relieved that they knew that I knew about sexual development. Those topics are often so shrouded in shame, but this workshop created common ground for those discussions going forward."
Dr. Morgan Greenwood - age 28
"The sex education curriculum at public school is completely inadequate at helping young adults navigate puberty, intimate relationships and body insecurities. This workshop opens up a world beyond anatomy, and into one of true humanity. For myself, the medicine was simply having a place to speak openly about these topics. "
 Ethan Hill - age 27
"As a kid, you hear so much about sex and puberty from outside sources and it is difficult to decipher what is accurate and true. Claire's workshop gave me the foundational knowledge and demystified the topics so I was better equipped to navigate my own development and make decisions grounded in this knowledge- not what I was hearing from friends or online. The workshop made these topics less taboo and scary, making me more confident and comfortable with my changing body and sexuality. I am now a social worker with youth and families and am often having similar conversations around puberty and sex with my clients. I always loved talking and learning from Claire growing up because she was authentic, empathetic, and nonjudgmental- all qualities I try to model in my own practice with youth. Now that I am on the other side of the sex talk, I am grateful to have this experience to model off of. I frequently recommend Claire's guide as a resource for parents and new clinicians who are struggling with how to have conversations around sex and puberty with kids."
 Emily Rogers- age 26
"Many kids in religious spaces are told not to talk about sex. They are taught that it’s a dirty word and topic, or they are fed a very watered down version of the truth. That lack of knowledge can lead to serious self hatred and potentially dangerous behavior. Teaching parents alongside their kids allows for more open communication and understanding. My mom was better equipped to educate me as I got older, and I felt comfortable enough to ask for her help while navigating through puberty, coming out, young-adulthood and now adulthood. As an adult I’m fortunate to not be saddled with the shame associated with sex and sexuality that many of my peers are still struggling to overcome."Â
Eva Bower- age 25
 What Your Child Needs Is You.
Time is the greatest expression of love.
And your presence is the greatest gift you’ll ever give your child.
This is your moment.
Not to be perfect.
But to be present.
To be their first voice of truth.
To be their foundation.
To be the one they trust when the world gets loud.
Clarify gives you everything you need to do that—with confidence, clarity, and love.
Empower Your Child Today