CLARIFY LESSON SERIES

Simplifying Puberty & Sex Talks for Parents and Kids from the Comfort of Home

Empower Your Child With Foundational Science-Based Sex Education Video Lessons & Digital Parent Guidebooks.

It's Never too late (or too Early) to Build Your Child's Confidence, Foster Open Communication, and Customize Conversations to Align with Your Family's Values

Clarify Lesson Series:

Confidently Talk About Puberty, Sex, and Relationships with Your Child

Let’s Be Real—Talking to Your Child About Puberty, Sex, and Relationships Can Feel Overwhelming. Many of us didn’t have positive experiences with Sex Ed growing up, and the idea of having these conversations with our kids can feel downright uncomfortable. If you cringe at the thought of talking to your child about puberty or sex, you're not alone.

I’m Claire Tomkinson, a mom and the founder of Clarify Sex Education. For over 15 years, I’ve taught sex ed to hundreds of parents and kids, and I’ve seen firsthand how crucial it is for parents to step in and provide the right guidance. But without the right tools, many parents feel unsure, anxious, or even avoid these important talks altogether.

That’s exactly why I created the Clarify Lesson Series—to give parents like you the resources, confidence, and support needed to have honest, age-appropriate conversations with your kids. These are the conversations that will help shape your child’s understanding of their body, relationships, and sexuality—setting them up for a future of confidence, respect, and safety.

If You Don’t Talk to Your Child About Sex, Someone Else Will—Take Control of Their Education Today

As parents, we all want our kids to grow up feeling confident, informed, and emotionally secure. But here’s the truth: without the right guidance at home, they’re vulnerable to harmful misinformation. From social media to peers, your child is constantly exposed to misleading or confusing ideas about sex, relationships, and body image. Without your guidance, they may feel scared, confused, or misled.

Studies show that you, as a parent, influence 70% of your child’s beliefs about sex, relationships, and their bodies—whether you have intentional conversations or not. Imagine the lasting impact you could have if you actively shape those beliefs with the right information from the start.

With the Clarify Lesson Series, you can confidently give your child the accurate, age-appropriate information they need. More importantly, it opens the door to ongoing, meaningful conversations that help them navigate growing up with confidence, self-respect, and the ability to make informed choices. You’ll be able to give them the knowledge they need, while strengthening your relationship and bond.

Picture Yourself Having:

1. Peace of Mind & Confidence
You’ll know your child is learning accurate, age-appropriate information from a trusted source—so you won’t have to worry about where they’re getting their facts. With Clarify, you’re providing a solid foundation for puberty, sex, and relationships that truly align with your beliefs and values.

2. Comfortable, Honest Conversations
Talking about these topics doesn’t have to be awkward. With the Clarify Series, you’ll learn how to bring up even the toughest subjects with ease—whether it’s puberty, consent, relationships, or intimacy. No more cringe factor. You’ll speak with confidence, share your values, and create a safe space for your child to ask questions.

3. A Stronger, Trusting Bond with Your Child
These conversations don’t just teach your child about growing up—they build trust and connection with you. By providing the right information, you become your child’s go-to guide for life’s difficult questions. This bond will last well into their teen years—and beyond.

4. Empowered, Confident Kids
Imagine your child navigating puberty and relationships with confidence—feeling secure in their decisions, setting healthy boundaries, and feeling comfortable in their own skin. The Clarify Lesson Series gives them the tools they need to thrive emotionally and socially, setting them up for long-term success.

5. Reduced Anxiety About "The Talk"
It’s normal to feel anxious about having "the talk." The fear of saying the wrong thing or not being prepared can cause stress and avoidance. With Clarify, you’ll feel ready and equipped to have these important conversations—without the pressure. You’ll no longer worry about awkwardness or avoiding tough topics. Instead, you’ll confidently guide your child through these milestones, no matter how old they are.

You Can’t Afford to Wait

The longer you wait, the more likely your child will hear about sex, relationships, and body image from the wrong sources. If you don’t take control, someone else will— and that can change the trajectory for your child.

By starting the conversation now, you’re giving your child the foundation they need to make informed, confident decisions as they grow. More than that, you’re building a relationship rooted in trust and open communication—a gift that will benefit both of you for years to come.

It is never too late to open the door to these conversations and it isn't too soon to take control of the narrative today. You can set your child up for success in their journey through puberty, relationships, and beyond with Clarify.

What's Inside the Lesson Series?

BITE-SIZED VIDEOS

Whether you’re scrolling in the pick-up line or chilling at your computer, you can access my handy parent guidebooks anytime you need them. They’re here to help you level up important conversations with your kid about sex and puberty without the dreaded stress or weirdness.

These guidebooks are loaded with tips, fun activities, and thoughtful exercises to guide you through all 8 videos in the Clarify Lesson Series. Think of them as your personal roadmap for tackling those tricky chats in a way that fits your family’s needs and values.

With these guides, you’ll boost your confidence and find your authentic voice. So when your child is ready to talk, you’ll be right there with the perfect message. Let’s make those conversations not just easier, but truly meaningful!

ON-THE-GO GUIDES

Do you wish you could just show your child a video that tells them everything? Done! Check out Clarify Sex Education’s 8-part video series!

These comfortable, judgment-free episodes make learning about human growth and development feel as natural as talking to a good friend. From puberty and sexual activities to pregnancy and risky behaviors, each video packs essential info into quick 10-minute (or less) lessons.

These bite-sized episodes make it easy for you and your kid to have these important conversations together. Whether your child watches them on their own or you use them for a little inspiration, you can feel really good knowing they’re getting a solid sex education that you can trust!

CLARIFY COMMUNITY

When you get my Clarify Lesson Series, you’re not just getting access to my informative videos and awesome parent guides—you’re also automatically enrolled in the Clarify Community, where we learn and grow right alongside our kids!

As a member, you’ll join me, Claire Tomkinson, for bi-weekly live Q&A sessions, boosting your confidence for those important convos with your child. Our community forum is full of great advice, actionable tips, and best practices from fellow parents just like you!

The first month is on me when you purchase the Clarify Lesson Series, and after that, it’s just the price of a small coffee each month if you decide to stick around.

Step into the Clarify Community, where we support and grow together every step of the way!

Don't leave these Important Conversations to Chance.

By Starting These Conversations Now, You’re Giving Your Child a Head Start on Healthy Relationships and Self-Worth.

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What Parents Are Saying About the Clarify Lesson Series

Starting Conversations with your kids about puberty, sex, and relationships doesn’t have to be awkward or stressful. With the Clarify Lesson Series, you can take the guesswork out of these important conversations.

My clear, age-appropriate lessons give your child the facts they need—without the weirdness. And for you, the parent, I make it easy to share your values and beliefs in a way that feels natural and supportive.

Join the growing community of parents who sleep better at night, knowing their kids are confident, informed, and equipped to make better choices. With Clarify, you’ve got this!

Let's Hear From the Experts: Why Teachers and Therapists Love Clarify

Casey McMullen is a teacher, educator, and mom of two. She understands the crucial role of parent involvement both inside and outside the classroom. When parents take an active role in sex education at home, it not only boosts their child’s confidence, safety, and education—it also supports teachers in the classroom.

Casey McMullen

"Having an open and supportive relationship with my children is one of my top priorities as a mom and that doesn't stop at puberty. Claire's sex education lessons are beautifully made, easy to understand, and, most importantly, help foster important conversations. She goes through every topic with care and allows families to have natural conversations about anatomy, puberty, relationships, expectations, and more. Sex education is such an important part of helping kids understand themselves and plays an important role in keeping them safe and healthy. I am thankful that Claire's course will provide many families with this much needed information."

Mel Matthews

As an outpatient therapist specializing in working with teens and their parents, Mckay understands the challenging conversations that parents often avoid. He recognizes the positive impact that open communication can have on children. Being a parent and a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and Therapist, he highly recommends the Clarify Lesson Series as an excellent resource for initiating these essential discussions.

McKay Glasgow

Let's Hear from The Parents: Real Stories, Real Support

"I certainly feel prepared and empowered to have these coming-of-age talks with my kids. The stress of coming up with and delivering appropriate content is gone. I appreciate that the topics are split up into smaller units so we can address a little or a lot of it at one time based on each child and the things they need or want to know. The videos are also so helpful as they really set the tone for a casual conversation and not so much a lesson. THANK YOU!"

Amanda Jester

"I absolutely loved having this class for me and my children. It definitely helped all of us open the doors on conversations that can be uncomfortable. My son isn’t embarrassed to bring up questions about sexuality or to talk about intimate topics. I believe taking the class made him regard his sexuality as a factual part of himself and he has none of the shame or hesitancy around these topics that I grew up with."

Laurie Spepulveda

"Claire, the parent guidebook is wonderful! From setting the tone to considering goals and how to deliver the message, you have offered both the parent and child comfort, wisdom, and intentionality for these very important conversations."

Jenny Alexander

"The program was a great way to provide a foundation and start the conversation. I was not really sure how to start having these conversations and this program really helped me and made it all less awkward."

Andrea Weaver

"The program's approach is to present the topics in a straightforward manner and without any bias. All questions are welcome. That gave me a framework to use to discuss sensitive subjects and has made it easier for me to bring up such topics and for us to feel at ease talking together."

Ashley Landman

"By going through the guided steps provided by the Clarify Sex Education Series, we were able to open the conversation with our daughter sooner than we realized was ever possible!"

Alisa & Rex Noble

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INSIDE THE VIDEOS

Bite-Sized Episodes

My video series covers essential topics, including:

Puberty
Male Puberty
Female Puberty
Menstruation
Sexual Activities
Sexual Intercourse
Pregnancy
Sexual Risks

Each episode is 10 minutes or less, giving your kids the essential facts about their changing bodies and minds—quick and easy! You can go at your child’s pace, showing episodes as they need them or even just parts of an episode to perfectly match the material to their needs.

Each video is presented in my judgment-free, conversational style, making it feel like a relaxed chat with a good friend or family member. This approach helps both kids and parents feel comfortable and at ease as they dive into these important topics together.

Plus, with every video, you’ll get a parent guidebook packed with expert tips to help you navigate these conversations with confidence.

You’ll be able to share your own beliefs and values while tailoring the conversation to fit your family’s unique needs.

No need to stress about memorizing all the scientific terms—my videos cover that! Whether you watch together or check it out for inspiration, you can trust that your child will get accurate information from a source you can trust.

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INSIDE THE PARENT GUIDEBOOKS

Mobile Friendly, On-the-Go Guides

Each video episode comes with a handy parent guidebook, and trust me, when you follow the guide before chatting with your kiddos, those conversations will feel so much more natural, supportive, and easy!

Each guidebook is designed to give you the tools you need for open, honest discussions with your child that feel natural and authentic to you. Each one comes complete with best practices, fun activities, tips, and reference guides so you always know what you're talking about.

You don’t have to worry about stumbling over your words or saying the wrong thing—these guidebooks have got your back! They’re all about helping you share your beliefs and values, making sure your unique hopes come through in every conversation.

These guidebooks are super easy to use—just print, or download, and access them anywhere, even right on your phone. With my expert guidance right at your fingertips, you can confidently support your child every step of the way.

Plus! If you have a specific need or question that isn’t covered in the guidebooks, you’ll automatically gain membership in the Clarify online community when you purchase the lesson series. This means you’ll have access to the parent forum and live Q&A sessions with me!

I want you to feel fully supportive every step of the way.

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You Can't Afford to Wait—Start Shaping Your Child’s Future Today!

Your child is being exposed to information about puberty, relationships, and sex every day—whether from friends, social media, or even TV shows. The reality is, the sooner you start having these conversations with your child, the more influence you have over the information they receive and how they understand it.

Waiting to talk about these topics could mean missing the opportunity to guide your child with accurate, reliable, and thoughtful information. The more time that passes, the more likely they are to get misled by unreliable sources that can shape their perceptions in harmful ways.

By starting now with the Clarify Lesson Series, you take control of the narrative, helping your child develop a healthy, confident understanding of their body, boundaries, and relationships. Don’t let your child’s future be influenced by misinformation—be the trusted source they need.

The earlier you start, the more impact you can have on shaping their self-esteem, confidence, and ability to navigate relationships safely and responsibly.

CLARIFY LESSON SERIES

$97

✨Bonus Membership✨

8 Educational Videos: Make science-based Sex Ed simple, comfortable, and factual for your kids. You control the timing and pace to align with their questions and needs.
8 Digital Parent Guidebooks: Elevate your communication style so your child feels heard and turns to you first for important Sex Ed information. Tailor the message to align with your family’s values and beliefs —accessible on any device!
Bonus Membership: Enjoy automatic inclusion in the Clarify Community for a month—on me! Access our parent forum and join live Q&A sessions for expert advice, all from the comfort of your own device
Peace of Mind: Some benefits are truly priceless. Imagine knowing exactly what your child understands about puberty, sex, and relationships—and how your family values shape those conversations.✨Rest easy knowing they’ll turn to you first for support and guidance.

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7-DAY MONEY-BACK GUARANTEE

If you decide the Clarify Lesson Series is not a good fit for your family, let us know within the first 7-days for a full refund. No questions asked.

Lessons À La Carte

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Lesson One: Puberty

In this essential lesson, your child will receive an introduction to puberty, learning about the physical and emotional changes that mark this important transition. The lesson includes a short, engaging video that explains puberty in a clear, respectful, and age-appropriate way. Accompanied by a parent guidebook (available as a fillable PDF or Google Doc), you’ll find practical tips, activities, and conversation starters to help guide the discussion while staying true to your family’s values. Plus, you’ll receive one month of access to the Clarify Community, where you can connect with other parents, ask questions, and join live Q&As for ongoing support. This lesson provides the foundation for understanding puberty, empowering both you and your child to have open, informed, and confident conversations.