Navigating Holiday Conversations: Preparing for the Taboo Questions

As the holiday season approaches in the United States, I want to draw your attention to something that seems to happen in my house every year: family gatherings. There’s something about a house full of relatives catching up that seems to bring up… interesting topics. And as much as we might try to shield our kids from adult conversations, they alwaysseem to be listening. They’ll act like they’re not—eyes glued to a screen or busy with cousins—but once the dust settles and everyone’s headed home, suddenly there’s a new round of questions. Taboo questions. You know, the kind that you weren’t quite prepared to answer, but now, thanks to Aunt Sally or Uncle Mike, your child has a whole new vocabulary of adult topics they’re ready to discuss.

This isn’t a bad thing. In fact, it’s a pretty great opportunity for your child to learn some new vocabulary and become more aware of the world around them. But here's the thing: it’s much smoother when you’re not caught off guard.

We all know how it feels when those unexpected questions pop up. "What does 'divorce' mean?" "What’s a 'strip club'?" Or the classic: "What’s sex?" Yikes, right? But the good news is that you don’t have to panic when these questions come your way—especially when you have the tools to handle them calmly and confidently.

This is where my Clarify Lesson Series comes in.

I want to make sure you’re equipped before the holiday chaos sets in. It’s my mission to get the Clarify resources into your hands so you’re prepared for those questions that come out of nowhere. The Clarify Lesson Series gives you the knowledge and the confidence to handle any conversation about puberty, relationships, and even those “awkward” topics—whether it’s from your kids or from the conversation overheard at the dinner table.

But here’s the thing: it all starts with listening.

If you take just a few moments to check out my free masterclass, you’ll learn how to embrace your child’s thoughts and questions in a way that is both open and honest. The key is to listen fully, without judgment, and to respond with accurate information, while also conveying your own values in a way that makes sense for your family.

This shift in mindset can make all the difference between a meaningful conversation and a knee-jerk reaction that you’ll regret later. Instead of fumbling through an awkward answer, you’ll have the tools you need to navigate these conversations with grace, and perhaps even help your child feel comfortable asking more questions in the future.

So as we head into the holiday season and you’re preparing for some potentially tough or uncomfortable questions from your kids, remember: you’ve got this! By taking a proactive approach and starting with some foundational knowledge, you’ll be able to turn those surprise questions into teaching moments that leave both you and your child feeling empowered.

Start with my free masterclass today and get a head start on making these important conversations feel natural and comfortable—no matter what new vocabulary your kids learn from family over the holidays. 😉

Happy Thanksgiving (and good luck with those holiday questions)!