Opted Out of Sex Ed? Learn How to Teach Your Kids About Puberty and Sex at Home

So You Opted Out of Sex Education at School—Now What?

As a parent, you’ve made a choice. Whether it’s due to concerns over curriculum accuracy, a mismatch with your values, or the belief that the information might not be age-appropriate, you’ve opted out of sex education at your child’s school. But now you’re probably wondering: What happens next?

You’re not alone in this decision. More and more parents are finding themselves in the same position, opting out of programs that are now “opt-in only” or, in some cases, simply no longer offered at all. Schools have shifted away from teaching comprehensive sex education, and what is being taught often doesn’t align with the personal beliefs or family values that many parents hold.

But here’s the thing: You don’t have to leave this conversation to chance.

If you’ve opted out, it’s essential to have a plan for how you’re going to make sure your child gets the factual, foundational knowledge they need about their bodies, puberty, relationships, and safety. Many parents, however, haven’t thought this far ahead. This is a big opportunity for you to step in and be the one who shapes your child’s understanding of these important topics—and you have more influence over this conversation than anyone else.

Why You’re in the Best Position to Lead the Conversation

The truth is, as a parent, you have the power to make sure your child gets accurate, meaningful, and safe information. You’re in the best position to make this conversation one that aligns with your values, your hopes for your child, and your expectations for how they will use the information.

This isn’t just about “the talk.” This is about opening up a long-term, ongoing dialogue that will serve as the foundation for how your child views their body, their relationships, and their boundaries as they grow. And it can make a world of difference in their life.

Studies show that kids who have a strong foundation in sex education and a trusted adult they can turn to are more likely to have stronger self-esteem, better decision-making skills, and a healthier understanding of relationships and boundaries. So if you’ve opted out, you’re in a prime position to shape these conversations in a way that can positively impact your child’s future.

Don’t Miss the Opportunity—It’s a Gift!

As daunting as it may feel, this moment is a gift. You get to be the one who guides your child through this information—on your terms, with your values and beliefs in mind.

But here's the secret: You don’t have to do it alone or figure it all out on your own.

That’s why I created the Clarify Lesson Series. It’s designed specifically for parents like you who want to take control of the conversation and guide their children through puberty, sex, and relationships in an intentional, thoughtful way.

What’s in the Clarify Lesson Series?

The Clarify Lesson Series is a self-paced, parent-friendly program that helps you navigate these important talks with confidence. With easy-to-follow video lessons and digital guides, you'll have the tools to confidently discuss puberty, sex, safety, and relationships in a way that resonates with your child—and that aligns with your unique beliefs and values.

• Step-by-step lessons guide you through each stage of the conversation.
• Parent guides help you think through how you want your child to apply the information they receive—whether it’s about body autonomy, relationships, or healthy boundaries.
• Practical tips on how to communicate with confidence—using your words and your body language—to reinforce your messages.
• Conversation starters to help you ease into these talks without feeling awkward or uncomfortable.

This program isn’t about one big “talk” that you dread. It’s about a series of ongoing conversations that evolve with your child. These talks will help deepen your relationship, build trust, and empower them with knowledge they can use to make healthy decisions as they grow.

The Life-Changing Impact of These Conversations

You may not realize it now, but this isn’t just about giving your child facts. It’s about creating a safe space for them to ask questions, express concerns, and feel supported as they navigate the confusing and sometimes overwhelming world of growing up.

When you open up these conversations, you’re giving your child the gift of knowing they can come to you for guidance, whether it’s about their body, their feelings, or their relationships. This kind of ongoing support is what gives kids the confidence to navigate these years with a strong sense of self and a healthy understanding of their bodies and relationships.

Research shows that kids who have this foundation of knowledge and a trusted adult to guide them are more likely to:

• Make healthier decisions about their bodies and relationships.
• Have stronger boundaries and know how to protect themselves.
• Feel more confident in their ability to say no and make choices that align with their values.

This can truly be life-changing for your child. And you, as their parent, have the power to be the one to set them on the right path.

Take Control of the Conversation Today

Don’t leave your child’s education about their body and relationships to chance. Take control of the conversation now and make sure they’re getting the right information—on your terms.

The Clarify Lesson Series gives you everything you need to confidently start this important journey with your child. It’s time to shape these conversations, align them with your values, and empower your child with knowledge that will last a lifetime.

Click below to get started today—and take the first step toward creating a more confident, informed, and empowered future for your child.